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Sunday, March 16, 2014

Ascertaining Your Kids’ Love Language



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What is the process of discovering the primary love language of your children?

Here we go mom and dad; some experts have suggested these simple ways to discover your child love language: first, observe how your child expresses his or her love to you and others. For instance, if your son or daughter frequently tells you what an awesome parent you are and what a great job you do caring for him or her and so forth; his or her love language is likely to be words of affirmation. If your daughter or son is always bringing you gifts she or he has found at school, around the house or outside, then his or her love language is more than likely receiving gifts. If your child always wants to hug and touch you, possibly his or her love language is physical touch. If he or she continually wants to help you with household work and other types of service, then likely his or her love language are acts of service. If he or she constantly wants to play with you, read books with you, and do things with you, his or her love language is most likely quality time. Your kids are sending you vital clues about what they like to receive, so learn them and put them into application.
After observing what your child love language is, start paying attention to how your child serves you, pay close attention to what your child request from you often. I don’t mean routine things. Those requests can be an indication of his or her primary love language.  Listen to the child’s requests carefully until you see a pattern, once you acknowledge it, act on it.
God has given each of you a gift from His great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them wisely to serve one another. 1 Peter 4:10NLT
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