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What is the process of discovering the
primary love language of your children?
Here we go mom and dad; some experts have suggested
these simple ways to discover your child love language: first, observe how your
child expresses his or her love to you and others. For instance, if your son or
daughter frequently tells you what an awesome parent you are and what a great
job you do caring for him or her and so forth; his or her love language is
likely to be words of affirmation. If your daughter or son is always bringing
you gifts she or he has found at school, around the house or outside, then his
or her love language is more than likely receiving gifts. If your child always
wants to hug and touch you, possibly his or her love language is physical
touch. If he or she continually wants to help you with household work and other
types of service, then likely his or her love language are acts of service. If
he or she constantly wants to play with you, read books with you, and do things
with you, his or her love language is most likely quality time. Your kids are
sending you vital clues about what they like to receive, so learn them and put
them into application.
After observing what your child love
language is, start paying attention to how your child serves you, pay close
attention to what your child request from you often. I don’t mean routine
things. Those requests can be an indication of his or her primary love
language. Listen to the child’s requests
carefully until you see a pattern, once you acknowledge it, act on it.
God has given each of you a gift from His great variety
of spiritual gifts. Use them wisely to serve one another. 1 Peter 4:10NLT
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